Is 41-42 too old to be a first time father

Recently talking to a few friends. I had some work and financial issues when younger and put off dating in my late 20s and early 30s. I endured a very bad break up with a girl at 33 who hurt me badly. Then Covid came and things got worst from there. I recently have been talking to a few different people since and have been surprised at the backlash I received from saying I have a desire to be a father..........many thinks I am irresponsible at wanting to be a father at my age. For what it's worth, the backlash that I am receiving is coming from locals and local ladies. I feel like the local scene is more harsh towards older men who wants to be father. Now financially stable. Have my own 5-room HDB flat, renting out the spare bedrooms and earning income. Is anyone else experiencing the same?