Ex got me pregnant and then bailed

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Ex got me pregnant and then bailed

I’m in a really difficult situation and I don’t know what to do. I found out I’m pregnant, and my ex is the father. When I told him, he blocked me on all platforms — phones, social media, everything. I currently have no way to contact him. I’ve never experienced anything like this, and I’m feeling lost, scared, and overwhelmed. What are my options in Singapore, legally, emotionally, or practically, when someone refuses to respond like this? I’d appreciate any advice, personal experiences, or direction. Thank you.

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Hello my dear, I am so sorry about what happened. This is not right. Please do call the AWARE helpline ASAP as they are able to advise you better on your options available (emotional, legal, practical). Please dont waste any time, the sooner you seek help the better. 1800-777-5555 https://www.aware.org.sg/womens-care-centre/helpline/

Hope that OP won't choose one of the pro-lifer fake hotlines littered in the thread; nothing against adoption but shameful to try and take away a woman's choice by pushing an agenda on them at a point of crisis.

Probably the first step is to decide what you want - do you want to keep the baby or not? That will then inform what other decisions you need to make. No point chasing your ex if you don't want to keep the baby. Please also seek support from your family/friends/professional services no matter how you decide. Either way it's a big life decision and you want to be OK when you come out on the other side. Just throwing out an idea; I have no background about how your relationship with your ex was or how bad the break up was, so take what you will from this - If you want to keep the baby and want him to be involved, maybe inform his parents (assuming you have a way of directly contacting them) given the child will be their grandchild, not just your ex's child.

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Ex got me pregnant and then bailed